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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - What should you be committed to?
- There are many dynamics that go into making a great team. Dynamics such as chemistry, talent, unity, and the list could go on and on. However, there is one dynamic that many teams, businesses, and leaders often overlook. That dynamic is commitment. Without each individual person in the organization, including yourself, being totally committed to the organization it will never reach its potential....
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Are you a victim of fabs? part one
- Have you heard of the FABS? The FABS are quadruplets; they are not identical but they are very, very similar! The FABS are: Fear, Anger, Blame and Shame. This quartet love to arrive, uninvited, at people's houses and literally stay forever. They will certainly stay as long as you allow them to; they never seem to get tired of hanging around and causing troubles for the unsuspecting host.The...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Are you a victim of fabs? part 2
- When you have a case of FABS, it may be hard to eradicate, but it is far from impossible. Fear, Anger, Blame and Shame may be different emotions, but they can all be gotten rid of in the same ways:First and foremost, it is very important to learn to LIVE IN THE MOMENT! The past is over and done with, and can never be changed, no matter how much we wish that it could. I remember watching a T...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Discovering opportunity in times of challenge
- You may be facing a type of disappointment, frustration, loss, or general sadness. It is in these times you can immediately begin to search for the counterbalancing positive to it. This is a flawless universal law: An opposite condition must emerge to offset the initial condition.Emerson referred to it as the "Law of Compensation". In some degree, the equilibrium of the universe if affected...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Community after tragedy
- One Friday in November, I began a journey from New Jersey to downtown New York City to visit old work friends. It was my first visit since the tragic September 11th attack. Although I've traveled this same route--the commuter train to the Hoboken station from 1996-2000--there were now, of course, changes in the environment when I got to Hoboken.For one thing, it was the first time I had to ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - An exercise to open your mind to your possibilities
- Everything exists twice. First, in your mind. Later, before you in three-dimensional space.In your mind, then, create a perfect room. See yourself sitting in the middle of it, buried deep in the folds of a huge, comfortable chair that feels as soft as a cloud. See a smile of contentment float across your face.Closing your eyes as you sit or snuggle in your favorite chair and begin to...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Lifes curveballs
- Do you realize how good you have it? Yes, everyone has problems, but it could be worse than what it is now. Yes, everyone has a bad day or two, but it could be worse. Life can throw some serious curveballs at us sometimes.Be thankful for the problems you have now and for those bad days when they come. They are there for a reason - to help you learn to pull through and to help you realize wh...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Need a miracle? build one, everyday!
- Henry Ford, after he had achieved great success, was the subject of much public criticism. Many people thought that he was very lucky, some thought he was a genius, some thought he was born with a silver spoon in his mouth, some thought that powerful friends and influential people were the "secret" of his great success. Why some people even thought he was so mean, that once he found out there woul...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Words, ignorance, and casper the friendly ghost!
- Words, Ignorance, and Casper The Friendly Ghost!Do your best to accept this or do your best to fight it: but, "You are a mind with a body". Because you are, you have spiritual powers. And, the Spirit man (person) inside you contains powers known and unknown. Discover what they are!Ignorance, who me?Anything that seems logical to a person, who is ignorant of the facts, may seem...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - In a slump?, rejoice i say, rejoice!
- Yea, I know........I hear you saying "that's easy for you to say"! Well......why don't you just pout about it then? You know, I want to tell you a funny story about a salesperson in a BIG slump. This person I actually trained before she moved on to another job many years ago. You'll like this.Now, you know what a slump is, right? Don't ya? If you have ever been in outside sales you know wha...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Yourself
- With the beginning of a new year, are you happy with your life the way it is now? You just set new goals and resolutions for 2003 but are you satisfied with where you are now?This is a serious question that you need to ask yourself. You can't get to where you're going if you don't know where you've been. You need to appreciate what you have now in order to be able to receive more.You...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Train your brain, or cook your goose!
- One day while in deep meditation and self analysis, a paralyzed man discovered the most important person he would ever meet in his life. He saw very clearly that HE was a "mind with a body". And, right then he made the most important decision he would ever make. Discover what it was.Have you ever considered this, that probably one of the greatest advantages of the subconscious mind is it's ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Eight simple anger management tips
- "The other night I ate at a real family restaurant. Every table had an argument going."One of the biggest obstacles to personal and career success is anger. When we fail to control our anger, we suffer several blows:Anger impedes our ability to be happy, because anger and happiness are incompatible.Anger sends marriages and other family relationships off-cou...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Stinking thinking makes hope a dope
- Many centuries ago there was a Greek philosopher who lived on the Aegean Sea and wanted to go to Carthage. He was a very well educated professor of logic, so he decided he should do the very thing he taught his students. Hmmm?.What was it?Have you ever heard you are what you think? Well, ok then, I'm a Cadillac. :>). Nah?that's not the kind of thinking I talking about. What do you really th...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - The mind?s power fusion component
- It is widely believed that just anybody has the intrinsic potential to unfold an idea that will generate the revolutionary change(s) the world needs. That's erroneous!As no man can give what he does not possess. It is therefore quite unequivocal to say only knowledgeable people have the innate and dynamic ability to evolve revolutionary concepts.I discern that the more knowledge and ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - 10 tips to cope with negative emotions at work
- It's a fact of life - if you want to succeed in business, you need to know how to interact and communicate effectively with your employees, business partners, vendors, prospects, and customers. As a small business owner, this might involve rapid shifting from one type of language to another. For example, how you'd explain your expectations to your employees might be different than how you'd convey...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - In the midst of a storm, theres something more!
- Have you truly tried and still failed? Have you pushed on a piece of string so long that you think Methuselah would be proud of you? Have you held your temper so long that you feel you're about to blow a gasket? Well?.., this is your lucky day. Sit back, grab some coffee, Yuk, and go where failures fear to tread.Something More!I don't like coffee, that's why I said Yuk. Maybe you fai...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Then my boss said, take that fear and shove it!
- Hey gang; Ok it's time to create some good habits. You know, like eating a pork barrel full of Ben and Jerry's ice cream at 3 am in the morning. Nah......that's not the kind of habit I'm talking about. The only habit that will create is a quick trip to the toilet first thing in the morning. Ok, what then?To create a personal success system that never fails requires good habits. Without good...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - 5 tips to keep happy... even in wartime
- The world is going downhill faster than an Olympic skier. Terrorists lurk around every corner. Climate change will soon melt the tundra and turn Iowa into a desert. Frankenstein foods are flooding the market, cleverly masquerading as innocent potatoes and beets.And everybody is planning a war.Sadam wants to unleash unspeakable biological evils. George Bush II wants to unleash unimagi...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - A solution for trouble? try this breath of fresh air!
- I just heard the story of a man who hired a plumber to restore an old farmhouse. After he had finished a rough first day on the job he realized he had a flat tire which made him lose an hour of work; then his electric drill quit, and then his truck refused to start. As his customer drove him home, the plumber sat in stony silence.Hmm?I wonder where this is going? Well, when they arrived at ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Absence makes the fear go yonder!
- Emotions are controlled by a combination of reason and action. Man is the only member of the animal kingdom that can control the emotions he experiences on a day to day basis. But, in the negative antagonistic environment we live in, you will need a good healthy dose of something to turn your water into wine.Have you ever heard the saying, "A rolling stone gathers no moss?" Very true not on...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - What you can do as a non-raging mate to either fix the relationship or forget it
- (The following is an actual email conversation between Newton Hightower, Director of The Center for Anger Resolution, Inc., and "Betty" the girlfriend of a rageaholic.)Betty: I am a 35-year-old single woman who has been dating a man for three years who verbally and emotionally abuses me. I am called ALL kinds of names..."you're a F-ing B, you're stupid, F-ing crazy psycho, F-ing whore, F- y...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - A recovering ragers creed
- A rager, or rageaholic, is a person who is addicted to the expression of anger. While many people feel better when they "let it all out" a rageaholic should totally and completely abstain from expressing their anger.If anger or rage is a problem for you or someone you love, the following creed will help get things moving in a more positive direction. Read this list each morning before begin...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How to condition your mind for success
- Your mindset is a strong factor in achieving any type of success. By creating S-M-A-R-T goals for yourself you can condition your mind to achieve whatever it is you desire.S- Specific M- Measurable A- Achieved R- Reasonable T- TimeSpecific - Be very specific about what your goal is.Measurable - Make sure you can measure your goal so you know when you have achie...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - I know i can, i know i can
- I'm sure most of you remember the children's book about The Little Train That Could. I have to admit that at my age, I don't remember the exact title or exactly how the story goes, but I don't recall the idea in the story.Basically, if you think you can, you can, but if you KNOW you can, you WILL.By setting a goal, having a burning (I said BURNING) desire to achieve that goal, and da...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Getting over your fear of success
- The fear of success is more common than some might realize. Just the thought of 'What it would be like to...' is enough to set some people off.One might start talking about how he could never be successful. Well if he keeps saying things like that he'll end up proving himself right.Or if one's a dreamer she'll keep dreaming about what she wants to achieve. But will she ever take acti...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Open the pandoras box & unleash your hidden power.
- It really doesn't matter what your objectives are in this life. You breathe, live and act on a conscious level all day long... dear friend, you're...- Preprogrammed to Act on whatever They Want you to. -Who are they? They're the Thought Control Masters. Those who invade in your mind with unscrupulous, virtually "underground" techniques.That makes you feel anxious, paralyzed an...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Lose your hope and you can bring down the curtain!
- The others in the raft didn't seem to share Eddie's state of mind. His companions clearly began to think about what lay beyond death; And, to think about it in terms of their own lives. Eddie said, "at no time did I ever lose hope that we would be saved." Instead, Eddie tried to impart something to his comrades that would help them and be of great value to them. What was it?Hope! Perhaps yo...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - First aid for the soul
- A Model of the dysfunctional, unconscious human psyche. A way through, from confusion to consciousness.IntroductionMany people are lost and unhappy, with no clear sense of how to regain access to their true selves. Life seems too big, confusing and fragmented.The following model of how our unconscious psyche works is based on extensive client-centered, therapy-based experi...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Life issues pt. 3 - an attitude of gratitude
- An Attitude of Gratitude. How important is this to you on your path to success? I sincerely believe that everyone should consider this simple but effective fact. Being grateful for the things you possess in life will make your journey to success more smoother.Gratitude wards off negativity and jealousy, which in turn makes you feel better about your self. Feeling good and positive about you...