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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Universal thought systems #4
- Before we are able to use the Universal Thought System in a positive expansive manner, we must learn to use certain words in our language more effectively. The prime characteristic of the Universal Thought System is its consistency. It may not be used to manipulate. It may not be used to gain an advantage. It treats everyone equally. It eliminates the negative side of opposites. Why is this Univer...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Universal thought systems language #3
- Before we are able to use the Universal Thought System in a positive expansive manner, we must learn to use certain words in our language more effectively. The prime characteristic of the Universal Thought System is its consistency. It may not be used to manipulate. It may not be used to gain an advantage. It treats everyone equally. It eliminates the negative side of opposites. Why is this Univer...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How to use fear to your advantage
- The invisible force surrounded him, squeezing tightly around his chest. His eyes became wide and bewildered.Suddenly his mind raced with dark thoughts, his stomach churned, and he became engulfed with a sense of hopelessness.This man had just come face to face with FEAR. Now he had a life altering choice to make, one that we all must face: Fight it off, or let it destroy his dreams....
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Shifting your paradigm
- What is a paradigm? In my own words, a paradigm is a belief system. It can be a personal belief system, or one held by a mass number of people, or even the whole world. Such a belief system is so entrenched in our minds as truth that it usually does not occur to us to question it. Therefore, many of us never even think that maybe this thought pattern needs updating. But, inevitably there are those...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Practice gratitude to improve your life today
- As I swooshed down the Zoom Flume water slide at Shipwreck Island, my two-year-old son Gareth yelling "Fun! Weeee!" from his spot on my lap, I felt pure jubilation. The sun kissed my skin, water splashed up around me and the breeze carried a salt tang from the ocean mingled with the scent of sun screen. I could taste joy as it tingled in every cell of my being.To experience joy is...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Reframing rejection
- So people will reject us no matter how good we look, no matter how successful we are, and no matter how giving we are. If we were to become even nicer, and even more spiritually aware they would still reject us so it is a pointless battle trying to win over everyone.However we can change how we think about rejection. If we change the meaning of rejection it can become our ally instead of ou...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Where you want to be
- Barry was on the phone in his office, speaking with confidence, energy and passion.In his office were a number of removal men working quickly moving furniture out the door to the van parked outside. Before long the office was bare except for some old files, a cracked picture frame and a parched plant.Just then a tall man in a dark suit entered the building with a swagger. He found Ba...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Creating icebergs out of hostility
- Have you ever dreaded an upcoming presentation, meeting or function because you just knew that the group would be hostile? Maybe you had heard that these people are very critical, even aggressive.*How can you prepare for such a situation even though you would prefer to disappear into thin air.*1 Use Adversity To Make You StrongerVery often we make our greatest breakthroughs in...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How to deal with discouragement and develop exceptional people skills
- Ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel so discouraged that even one more day of frustration will be too much to handle?Everyone gets discouraged at times however there are a number of key differences between people who keep on going and those who give up:1 Focus On Your Goal Not On Your ProblemsOne of my mentors is a highly successful property developer and he loves solvin...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Change your head position for a flood of positive energy!
- Have you ever considered that you may be subconsciously sabotaging and inhibiting your own potential positive emotions through the position of your head and the manner in which you breathe?Personally, before a few years ago, I had never really considered it. However as I became more interested in how deep focused breathing could positively change your body and mindset I looked more closely ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - A good joke can lighten the mood
- A joke is a way of getting people to laugh. It is a great opener for a speech or in a social gathering to break the ice. Laughter is the best medicine and very often telling someone who is sick a funny joke gets them laughing and for a minute or two they forget about their illness. Children love jokes, especially Knock, Knock jokes and once they find one they like, they tell it all the time....
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - New attitudes-new possibilities
- I AM SO GRATEFUL for meeting challenges head-on. We see mistakes as learning experiences in disguise, And reach turning points in times of crisis, We find serenity in the midst of turmoil-- It's not what happens to us, but what we make of it that counts.I AM SO GRATEFUL for practicing mindfulness. Relaxing and going with the flow, Cherishing each ordinary moment,...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Strength within
- For the twelve hundred hostages, most especially Timur Kasumova.It's a bright morning. The sun is smiling warmly on the just and the unjust as they busy about their daily routine. I personally have nothing much to do but get to the Post Office, send a permission slip, authorising Voicenet to publish one of my poems in their anthology. This done, I would come back home and work on my compute...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Its okay to be negative sometimes!
- Lately, I've been hearing that it's not okay to have negative thoughts.There's been a lot of talk about motivation, inspiration, positive energy channeling and such. Have you heard the messages of the spiritually enlightened? I have! And frankly... I am a little weirded out.We're being constantly told to open our minds... do everything, try everything, accept everything and everyone....
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Get out of your way!
- We hear a lot these days about accepting responsibility for our actions and it is about time we did. Time is out for casting blame and pointing righteous fingers at others to cover up for our own shortcomings and acting out behaviors. We have got to "nip it, nip it, nip it in the bud" if for no other reason than our own mental health.So, let's begin by acknowledging that our thoug...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Dump those negative tapes
- Every time something doesn't go quite right (rather frequently for some of us), we start berating ourselves. We can be the soul of courtesy and forgiveness to those we care about and then turn and savage ourselves in the most brutal fashion. How many times have you told yourself: "I'm an absolute idiot!" What was I thinking?" And that is just the start.From those immediate negative self-ass...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Reacting to given situations!
- The milkman knocks at the door of the old lady's apartment. He notices that the door is open. He slightly pushes the door open and finds that she is murdered. His natural reaction to the situation would be to scream with fright, fully shaken up. The fear that someone might blame him, and the fear that the police might interrogate, flashes in his mind. But once he takes control, he begins to respon...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Don?t worry, be happy!
- Philippians 4:6-do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.Have you ever been worried about anything? Worried about how you were going to get money to pay the bills? Worried about how you were going to pay for that new water pump that your car needs right now? Worried about whether or not you will ever find th...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Watch your mouth
- Ever had one of those mothers, or grandmothers, who would often say, "Be careful what you ask for?"I did and always wondered exactly what she meant by that, but now, I know.Do you realize the power that your words carry with them?Your words have the power to persuade.Your words have the power to build someone up or tear someone down.You words have the p...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - You cant plant apple seeds and expect oranges
- Cheri decided that she wanted to grow an apple tree in her back yard. She had never planted an apple tree before. In fact, she had never planted anything before. This was her first time trying her hand at gardening. But last year, she had this idea that it would be nice to grow an apple tree right in her back yard.Now that the weather was growing nicer, the idea came back to her and it seem...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Halt all complaining
- Have you ever thought about you have a lot to be thankful for. Lets look at some of the things most people don't look at:I have a whole body that works. I can eat my food through my mouth. I can talk. I have the ability to make a decesions. I can create new things. I can hear. I can help others. I can see. I have people who love me. I can breath normal.These are just the starters of ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How to build rock solid self confidence
- You have probably noticed those people at work, school, and in your daily life that always appear to be self confident and on top of world.Everything seems to go right for these people and they always seem to present themselves as calm, collected and successful in everything they do.If you are paying attention you have probably noticed that these self confident people usually are suc...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Keep your cool
- Know your limits. Accept what you can't change and let go of things out of your control. Ease your tension. Take a walk; listen to music, splash cold water on your face. Earn small rewards when you make the choice not to become angry. Phone a friend. It helps to share your concerns and talk things out.Your example helps your children learn to handle anger. Be a good role model. Object to th...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Enlarge your vision
- Millions struggle through life barely earning enough to survive. Many are trapped in a job they hate, but are making just enough that they think they can't afford to start at the bottom in something else. They go through the motions at work, spend a frustrating time stuck in traffic getting home, and are too exhausted to have a pleasant conversation with their family.If you are one of them,...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - The power of inner dialogue
- Are you aware of your inner dialogue? If not, you can be aware of it at this moment. Just get quiet and listen, there is a voice inside you that is constantly talking to you all the time.If you have ignored the power of this little voice, you have been missing a great tool for developing your personal power.Your inner dialogue can be good or bad. If you have a positive thinking habit...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How i make and save thousands of dollars using only my subconscious mind-you can do the same!
- Thousands of dollars will be yours, just by using your subconscious mind.You get a very good feeling when you make new money. You also get a very good feeling when you save money.Here's how you can have and enjoy both:First, I'd like to share my personal story with you.When it came to fortunate breaks in life, I would lose out a lot. As the old saying goes: I'd be "a da...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Mindfulness: youre soaking in it!
- Looking for a bit more mindfulness in your daily life? Relax. You're soaking in it!Perhaps you remember Madge the Manicurist, a television commercial character who commiserates with her clients about their chapped hands. While she is filing the nails of one hand, she conspiratorially confides that her client is actually soaking her other hand in Palmolive dishwashing liquid. After all, "It ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Distortions are false beliefs programmed every day by self and those around us
- Distortions are False Beliefs Programmed every Day by Self and Those Around Us which Causes Feelings of Useless, Self-pity, Selfishness, Insecurity, False Moral Standards, and Social Withdrawal.Using affirmations on a daily basis will program truths about yourself. By changing your false beliefs, you can live a more positive lifestlye and have happiness in your life. Say the affirmations to...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Important days ahead
- Humans tend to categorize things by large or small, bright or dull, special or ordinary, and so on. We like to bring order and structure, but sometimes our efforts to place things into neat little slots can blind us to the little moments of joy we could be experiencing every day.For instance, we categorize holidays as special with the implication that other days have nothing going for them....
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - The 5 winning beliefs to accomplish anything in life
- A more positive future, a happier life, a body that's in better shape or a wealthier mind begins by a winning belief system. Beliefs shape our destiny and the more supporting they are, the more we are able to achieve our goals.Positive beliefs, like "I can do it" "I have tremendous resources to succeed" have been formed through experiences, especially during your childhood. In the same way,...