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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - The inner dialogue
- Do you talk with yourself? When we hear people talking aloud with themselves we consider it weird. But have you noticed that all people, with no exception, talk silently with themselves? This, we do not consider odd or weird.If someone hurts you in some way, or says something you do not like, what do you do? You enact a whole scene of anger in your mind! You envision yourself talking angril...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - The illusion of failure
- The most dangerous thing is illusion. ~ Ralph Waldo EmersonFailure is impossible. ~ Susan B. AnthonyIn the process of gaining momentum, there may be moments where you feel like nothing is going on. You are taking the action, but nothing seems to be happening. Using the analogy of the bodybuilder let's say that he/she has started to go for two weeks, but that body still is not...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Time to give up resentment
- Resentment isn't a spectacular emotion, but it is long-lasting and it easily becomes a way of life. When this happens, it blocks all possibility of successful and healthy relationships.When people feel resentment, they draw back into defensiveness to avoid the possibility of still more hurt. Good performance, good relationships and good become impossible. It's also an entirely negative emot...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How to stay positive in a negative world
- Gail's StoryGail is a friend of mine and she was relating to me for the hundredth time about the situation her brother was in. Gary is a nice enough guy. He's hardworking, honest and a good father. His only flaw is that he is extremely negative. After a five minute conversation with him, you feel like you've been hit by a bus. He has the knack of sapping up your energy due to his negativity...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - You, your self estem, and its importance in your growth!
- IntroductionDid your boss, took you for a ride? Did your girlfriend/ boyfriend ditch you? Did your friends take you for granted? And you feel that you are useless and you feel that they are hurting your self esteem.Understanding Self-EsteemTo understand self-esteem, it helps to break the term into two words. Let's take a look at the word esteem first. Esteem is a fancy word fo...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Universal thought system/forgiveness#2
- Clear Conflict with Forgiveness:Forgiveness is the means to solve all acts of violence and war. Over time, when forgiveness is used by enough people the cycle of violence will be broken. In the meantime, anyone who goes within and uses forgiveness as a solution to a conflict will help to resolve the conflict. Surveys show that most people think rudeness has increased dramatically. Since usi...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Universal thought systems/forgiveness
- Philosophy of Forgiveness:The most powerful tool that human beings possess is Forgiveness. Men and women must learn to use forgiveness to bring peace to individuals, to communities, and to entire societies. Before we can apply forgiveness to our grief and grievances, however, we must dispel some myths about forgiveness. In our culture, forgiveness is usually seen as a sign of weakness. Our ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - The trouble with the mind
- Bernard always had a problem with money.He was always lacking it.He longed for a life where he was able to have more than enough.Well, he really didn't want a lot more than enough. He simply wanted enough money to never have to stress about paying his bills on time and having enough to get the things that he wanted and desired.The problem was, he didn't feel he was educ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Developing self-esteem
- It would be pretty hard to become successful without first developing your self-esteem. In fact, I can't think of one person who is very successful who has low self-esteem.Before we start going on about self-esteem, let's take a second to define self-esteem.What is self-esteem? Self-esteem is defined as feelings of self-worth stemming from the individual's positive or negative belief...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Beginners programming 101
- Recently a great idea popped into my head about creating a software program. Now, if the truth be told, I know absolutely nothing about computer programming. But the thought of creating this software was very persistent, so I went to the book store and purchased a few books for beginning programming.As I was reading about how to become a computer programmer, it dawned on me how similar the ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - All my needs, desires, and goals are met -- instantaneously
- I get emails and questions from people all the time who are frustrated because they have read all types of self-help books, attended all types of motivational seminars, received personal coaching and yet, they still are unable to live the life that they dream of living.I know how frustrating it can be. You know all the things that you need to know, but how to do put it all into practice? Ho...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Powerful insights
- ? If it takes me to periphery (Drifted into continuous thinking compulsion), it is controlling me. If I am at centre (without taking the support of any idea in my own nakedness), nothing is controlling me.? If it takes me away from myself, I am not the boss. If I am myself, nobody has power over me.? Whatever enables me to be my self is relatively right; whatever takes me away from m...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Clenching?
- What are you holding onto? Wanta quit?There are many things that we people hold onto. Some of them are more important than others.What we believe is extremely important. It affects our entire lives.It can start with kids. When kids get insulted awhile they tend to believe what they've been told more and more. Their actions follow that belief.They do and sa...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Start living your dreams today with a positive attitude
- "Those people who think they can do something and those who think they can't are both right." - Henry FordWhat ever the mind can conceive and believe the mind can achieve.Here are the basic principles and steppingstones to change your life.The starting point to all success is having a positive attitude.Your attitude is going to play a large part in becoming su...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Why you want what you cant have
- "You can't always get what you want . . ." The Rolling Stones will soon be singing this refrain at venues around the world, as they embark on a year-long concert tour in August.This song, now decades old, addresses a universal truth. Here's the rest of the refrain:You can't always get what you want . . . But if you try sometimes You just might find You get what ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - You are magnificent! creating self-confidence
- The image you hold of yourself determines your success or failure in every aspect of your life. What do you really think about yourself? Do you like you? Do you believe in your abilities? Are you worthwhile? Are you the person who sets and accomplishes his or her goals? Are you decisive? Where do we gain these self-value skills? They begin with our thoughts.Certainly, we are all capable of ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Letter of hope from hospital patient
- Hospital patient undergoing surgery recounts how Hero Soul provided strength, inspiration, and hope during recovery"I used to look in the mirror and only have time to take a quick glance to ensure that I looked acceptable for a full day ahead of me. At 32, I am a mother of two and a wife of 8 years. I work full time and after putting in a days worth of work, I come home to my next full...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Positive thinking - anxiety & panic
- If you suffer with or have in the past suffered with anxiety and panic disorder, then you certainly know what its like to be swallowed up by your negative thoughts and feelings.Someone asks "Hey, how was your day?" and your typical reply is "bad" "crap" or "sh!#" oops I don't think I can say that word here ;-) Your entire vocabulary seems to only exis...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Living with chronic illness & disorders: are you a survivor?
- Once upon a time, I was a vibrant, youthful teenager...My First EncounterDuring my first pregnancy, I had contracted chicken pox from my young nephews and niece. Though it made for an irritable time in my initial trimester, I hadn't given it much aforethought. In the last part of my pregnancy, I noticed some weakness in my legs and arms, but naturally assumed it was part of th...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Change and transition - 10 steps to surviving change elegantly
- If I say the word "CHANGE" how do you feel? Most people remain fearful, anxious and uncomfortable with change, despite it being a driving issue in our society. It appears that no matter how much experience we have it doesn't get any easier.Gaining a level of understanding that allows you to be productive, creative and flexible with your own life as well as helping others handle change is ke...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Help yourself to a better future
- There are very many methods for achieving improvement to our personal confidence and self esteem, far too many to investigate in depth in a short information file. So on this page, we will have a look at the most popular and, for most people, the most effective.Self Acceptance Motivation & Goal Setting Self hypnosis Coaching/therapySelf AcceptanceSelf accept...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Ditch lack of confidence and unlock full potential
- Being the next Carmen Electra or Paris Hilton might or might not appeal to all you, but there are things that do appeal to you, and you don't do them.Maybe this is because you lacked the confidence to reach out for it or maybe this is because you just we're not sure it was right for you.In this article I want to help you use lack of confidence as your indicator ? showing you when you...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Not a negative thought!
- Turn negative thoughts into positive ones.Negative thoughts can be very self-destructing, it's true that how we think is who we are.Before I go on any further, let's take a quick testClose your eyes and count slowly to 10, while counting concentrate on listening to the numbers.What did that prove?While you were counting, what else were you thinking about? Unless ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How to experience life as a thrilling adventure
- "Adventure isn't hanging on a rope off the side of a mountain. Adventure is an attitude that we must apply to the day to day obstacles of life - facing new challenges, seizing new options, testing our resources against the unknown, and in the process, discovering our own unique potential." - John Amatt There is an old story about a mountain climber who had trained many years to reach the hi...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - It?s all about beliefs
- Changing your mindset can have a significant impact on achieving your goals.We've all heard about the power of positive thinking but does it work? How does your thinking influence your actions and get you the results you want?Understanding Your MindsetThe Wall Street Journal recently published an article about the significance of our beliefs and the mental models, or mindsets ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Choose wisely
- During these times of uncertainty in the outside world, look inside your self. Are you feeling uncertain? Are there new energies happening in your life? Are there new feelings and paths of direction to choose from? Have you been listening to your inner sense of self?Each time we undergo uncertainty in the outer world, like our neighborhood, our society, our nation or our planet, there is a ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Adding meaning to your life
- You got up today to go to work, to come home, to battle with the kids, to go to bed. Tomorrow, you'll do the same thing again. If you are struggling with depression, it may be very difficult to find a ways to motivate yourself to go through this role over and over again. It makes no difference who you are. Depression is a disease that effects us without thought of who, what, where or why. But, the...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Teens and positive living
- If you are a parent, it is up to you to keep your children positive. It is up to you to contribute to not only their physical well being, but also their emotional well being. In the teen years, it is nothing short of impossible to keep your daughter or son positive. But, you need to make that effort. The best way to do so is to encourage communication, openness, and most importantly, let them know...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Surrounding yourself with positive energy
- Our lives are busy. We rush here only to remember we were supposed to rush there. It seems like there is never enough time to be had. We all wish for longer days only so we can pack them even fuller with the things we think are important. But, what we really need is to surround ourselves with positive energy. Instead of worrying and fretting over one thing or another, you can instead be thinking o...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How our beliefs narrow the limits of our possibilities
- The universe is vast, it's dimensions inconceivable, it's potentialities unimaginable, and we know too that our own consciousness has depths to it that are virtually infinite, and yet despite this enormity within and without, we choose to confine ourselves to beliefs in scarce resources.These beliefs, like all our beliefs, are not true, yet, because of the earnestness of our conviction and ...