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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Changing negatives to positives
- Occasionally people will ask me how I keep a positive attitude, or remain optimistic. I used to find it funny that I would get asked such things. It was as though they assumed that somehow I'd figured a way to avoid allowing any negatives into my life at all. I can assure you I have not :-)After all, I am only human and the reality is that no matter how positive one strives to be, negative ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Improve your relationships instantly
- Discover how easy it is to improve your relationships. The following relationship advice will encourage people to help you willingly and cheerfully. It just takes one easy communication skill, and two magic words.The Communication Skill - Having An Attitude Of GratitudeYes, attitudes are really skills you can learn. Learn how to appreciate what others do for you, and you will ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Positive self talk - what should you say?
- How do you explain things to yourself? With positive self talk or negative? What we say to ourselves radically affects the quality of our lives, and our ability to do things effectively. How useful is it to always tell yourself "impossible," "more problems," "never," and "I can't?"Below are some of the things that positive and negative people say. Look at the difference, and start talking t...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Is add getting you down? 6 tips to sharpen your celebrating skills
- Celebrating is a skill that adults with ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) are often short on. They tend to have a negative image of themselves. Their own internal gremlin keeps reminding them of their failures and unrealized dreams and "the others" in the outside world often remind them when they don't live up to expectations.Here are six tips for Celebrating with ADD.1. Celebrate fai...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Thanks for the rejection!
- It sounds a little masochistic, but I actually appreciate being rejected. No, I don't needlessly relish the sting of reproach, or eagerly welcome scornful criticism, per se. But, as a writer, a salesperson, and an entrepreneur, I have come to appreciate that there is a strong correlation between the frequency of rejections that I withstand and the amount of success I generate, especially in my car...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Creating positive environments, part 1: using art
- One of our most active senses is sight. What we see can affect our outlook and attitude by how its counterpart, our brain, perceives visual information that it filters through its memory banks. You can improve the odds and therefore your attitude and outlook by creating environments that are viewed as positive. Here, in part one, the positive effects of using art will be explored.Art, in tw...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Always look on the bright side of life
- I was always somebody who felt quite sorry for myself, what I had not got compared to my friends, how much of a struggle my life seemed to be compared to others. I was caught up in a web of negativity and needed someone or something to help me to escape.During an afternoon at work one day, aged around twenty one, a colleague I was working with started to talk to me. What he said was quite u...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Self-opinions---can limit our lives
- Dr. Phil says each of us has a personal "truth" -what we believe of ourselves when no one else is looking-- and from this comes results in our lives that are in keeping with that truth.Let's call it our "opinions" of ourselves. They take many forms, we have an opinion of ourselves in every aspect of our lives; how we look, how well we speak, think, walk, work, dress, make love, treat others...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Free tips to increase self-esteem
- I have had many confidence issues in my life, all of which I have either dealt with or overcome. I have written about some of these issues below.1. The Bald Patch2. My height3. My weight4. The stutter5. My lack of belief in myself6. My careerTHE BALD PATCHEven though to some people it may seem trivial, I was born with a bald patch the size of...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - How to begin to overcome shyness
- The one thing that is absolutely vital to overcoming shyness is DESIRE. You must want to, badly.POSITIVE SELF TALKWe must begin to talk to ourselves about ourselves in a more positive way. Instead of defining ourselves negatively we must define ourselves positively.Tell yourself that...* I am equal in dignity to anyone else.* I have a lot to offer other people....
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Find your inner strength to tackle any challenge
- Everyone faces challenges during their life, from suffering the death of a loved one to being laid off from a job. But the challenges themselves aren't holding you back; rather, it's how you react to the challenges that determine your ultimate success and happiness.When faced with any challenge, you can react one of two ways: with your mind or with your heart. And if you're like most people...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Change your attitude from a whiner to a winner
- Who are the Whiners? Whiners are the people who always seem to have those hard-luck stories whether it pertains to their relationships, money, or health. You'll notice that even if they resolve one of their frustrating issues, they will immediately have another one to take its place. Are they really having a bad life, or just a bad attitude?One sure fire way of telling if you are a whiner i...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Fear -- feel it and keep moving
- Many of us allow our fear to stop us in our tracks. All it takes is a less than encouraging word, a negative facial expression, or a less than positive opinion, and we give up before we even get started. We're afraid of: the word "no" because it means failure the word "yes" because it means responsibility the disapproving look because it means r...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Your frame of mind may determine your health
- The mind absolutely amazes me. It will never be understood, yet it's been said that a healthy body makes the mind work better and it's been said that the mind can destroy the body. I'm sure you've heard about the power of the mind healing the body too.When I was young, I tried to use my mind to arm wrestle bigger stronger guys. I would win. It would take a lot of concentration. Now, I've pe...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - You have all the resources you need
- You already have all the resources you need to accomplish all the things you want to achieve. Sound too good to be true, doesn't it? Fact is, it is true. You do have all the resources you need. All of them. The questions are:-how broad is your awareness of these resources-which resources are we talking of here?-and, for which needs?There are countless resources that eac...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Sexual abuse. a story from a survivor.
- Uncle Liam was very kind to me again. He gave me more candies when I went to his grocery shop that morning. He always did. But I did not understand why he likes to touch and pinch my cheek.My visit to Uncle Liam's shop was quite frequent. He has a daughter about my age and we played together a lot. Mom and dad got to know him because he was the friendly neighborhood grocery shop owner who a...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Change
- One thing in life is certain---change. Things never stay the same. If you are hoping for the status quo, then I'm afraid you will be disappointed. Just think back to how things were five years ago and you will realize that there is so very much that's already different in a very short time.I'm sure there are some of you who know people who refused to adapt to the computer age. I still know ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Optimism, the only option for success
- People with negative attitudes may wonder why they never achieve the degree of success they desire. It is a fact of life that if you want to succeed, you must be optimistic. Your attitude determines your future. If you don't think anything is going to work for you, you won't put forth the effort needed for success. Your subconscious mind creates what you believe, so convince it that you believe in...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Mind power - fact or fiction? prove it for yourself in the next 7 minutes - truly awesome!
- Who are you?We all know that we are composed of atoms. But what are atoms made of?Physicists tell us that atoms are composed of electrons, protons and neutrons. They also tell us that these components are 'point particles'.They also tell us that point particles have no mass and therefore occupy no space. If they occupy no space they are, by extension of logic, not affected by ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Firewords: a dangerous necessity in your life?
- There are many stories of people injuring themselves, and others, with Firewords in the old wild days of entrepreneurship and it is usually passed off as the price that had to be paid in order to win.However, as time passes, there is a tendency to confuse reality with myth about how people rose to be so successful. The myth tends to appear as reality and that can be dangerous especially as ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Perfect to the penny
- At some point in our careers, we may find ourselves part of an obsolete operation, such as a downsizing, business insolvency, or even a single retail store closing.This can be a time of positive reflection for us, if we "step back" and ponder the good things that have happened, as well as all the new things we have learned.Such was the case for us, not long ago.Our s...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Penury perpetuates poverty
- So...you might just believe I hide behind computers creating and updating my websites and researching potential markets. Well...I love to spend time "in the street"..."under fire"...where the "action is." As a copywriter wannabe...and I'm learning much...I talk to many people on the street as well as business owners. As a "hands-on" direct marketer, I pass out a lot of publicity pieces...and get a...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Do you believe what you think?
- If you work toward what you dream, the dream can come true. You can achieve success. You can tell others one day about your success story.It's a better place to live than in the isolated place where you feel the pain of depression and the frustration of not getting what you want and need.If you really want something, who knows how it can happen for you. But you have to take some form...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - 10 tips to improve your self esteem
- Striving to improve our self esteem is on everybody's mind. It doesn't matter if you actively pursue this goal or you subconsciously working on improving your self esteem. The problem with this is that you really don't know exactly what you want to improve. You're acting intuitively on external signals.Do you know how to improve your self esteem? Probably not. To make it a little bit easier...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Managing life changes the tetris way (or how to let the blocks fall with skill and grace)
- Are you undergoing a major life change? Or merely trying to manage the daily barrage of things hurtling your way? In either case, you might feel you spend most of your time maneuvering through an endless stream of new challenges.If so, take a lesson from the popular video game Tetris. If you're not familiar with Tetris, the game is played with different-shaped blocks which fall in random or...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Have a present moment!
- It was the 10th day of rain, and I walked into the pool locker room feeling a little soggy around the edges. I asked my pool friend, Laurie, how she was and she said, "Bright and cheery. It's a wonderful day and I'm going to accomplish a lot of good things." Laurie, who is recovering from hip surgery and on most days can be seen walking around the locker room with great care, wiggled her cane at m...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Management of the almighty anger
- Apart form the Emotions and the attitude, Anger is a quite unsolved thing. we become angry when things are not according to us or not as we want, or not up to our expectation. We just simply becomes angry to satisfy & gratify our ego, super ego and false ego.Remember behind every behavior there is an intention , behind every action there is an reason, and behind every anger there are supres...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Wahms, dont compare yourself with others!
- Wahms, do you constantly compare yourself with others and come up short?You know how it is...you feel like this wahm's website looks better than yours, that wahm's direct sales business is more successful than yours, and then there's that one wahm who is everywhere spitting out infoproducts, seemingly in her sleep.Do you torture yourself like this?This is something I've been g...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Challenge your perspectives
- When I was a young girl, my sister and I used to visit an aunt who had a swimming pool. It was always a treat, as all we had was a small, kiddie pool and sprinkler at home. One summer, we even got to spend a whole week at my aunt's, and we got as red as lobsters, as we were in the water every available minute.One of our favorite things to do was to make a whirlpool. If you've never done it ...
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- 2007-11-13 22:16:19 - Seeing challenges as opportunities
- Are you a person who loves challenges, or hates them? I must admit I've spent most of my life as a person who hates them. I've always thought of challenges as frustrating, maddening obstacles keeping me from where I want to be. I even used to take them personally, feeling like the universe must hate me and like to see me struggle. ;-)As I grow older and (hopefully) wiser -- I find my compet...