Dating a married man - you must be nuts
If you are dating a married man, I have just one thing to say to you. Are you nuts! What the heck are you thinking? Yeah, yeah, right at first he didn't tell you he was married and you didn't ask. After you found out then, why didn't you tell him to take a hike? Let me guess, you think you are in love with him.
It is more likely that you have very low or even non-existent self-esteem and do not think you can do any better. I say, baloney! The self-esteem thing may be true and I am here to tell you that you can learn good self-esteem but you won't do it while you are dating a married man.
He will only try to hold on to you by stringing you along and buying you gifts and taking you places you have never been before. Most of all he will try to hold on to you by telling you lies about how he is going to leave his wife for you. Do not kid yourself, he will never leave his wife. For you or anyone else.
Getting gifts and going to those places you have never been before may sound all glamorous and everything but in reality you are seeing someone else's man and possibly wrecking their marriage. Is it really worth all the heartache you are causing?
What he wants is to have his cake and eat it, too. Do not think she doesn't know. You are probably only one of many indiscretions he has had and she will weather this one as she has all the others. He thinks he is God's gift to women and all you are doing for him is stroking his ego. You need to kick him to the curb and learn to have some respect for yourself.
Seriously, what are you really getting out of this relationship? Hiding, clandestine dinners and maybe a trinket or two, or spending time in sleazy hotels? A woman should have a boyfriend she can show off and tell people about. You can't do that when your boyfriend is a married man. He just wants to hide from his wife. Or, he wants to show her she has no control over him. If she didn't have any control, why does he feel the need to hide from her. Why not just flaunt his girlfriends right out in the open? Because he is a coward, that's why and if you did have any respect for yourself you would see that and tell him to get lost.
Frankly, he chose you because he saw the weaknesses you have and knew he could control you, not his wife. All he had to do was dangle that karat in front of your nose and you were hooked. How pathetic is that?
Maybe you are not weak at all, maybe you are just that shallow and will do anything you can to get anything you want from anyone in your life. Again, pathetic! Whatever your motivation, dating a married man is stupid, knock it off.
Dating a married man
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